Guess who has the most amazing love story ever! Yes. It is BB. She met her husband in kindergarten, and on the first day of school her father-in-law decided one day she would be her daughter-in-law. She fell madly in love with her husband in the 5th standard but he was cavorting around with other girls. She prayed day and night, gayatri mantra, Hail Mary, namaaz, all 3, every day, and a guruji came to her in a dream and said,"Tumhara byah kisi aur se hone wala tha magar tumhara priyatam tumko mil gaya" on her 18th birthday. He called her from a cricket camp to wish her a happy birthday and proposed to her. They got married after he finished his PG and quit playing cricket full time. She says in a vision she saw her daughter as a newborn and then a few weeks later found out she was having a baby. Again in a vision, the morning before he passed away, a deceased relative, her husband's cousin tapped on her car window and asked for permission to take her husband with him."
They must have been soul mates. She begs to differ though but who knows. Human beings can only guess at such things. Any how, soul mates or not, it is quite a story.
After such a touching and beautiful romance how did the marriage go so wrong, I've been wondering since yesterday? I'm thinking it was a case of "buyer's remorse", especially on her part. She was a "sore winner" . She achieved her one and only goal, having flunked the medical entrance test 5 times, and then had no where to use her competitive and aggressive spirit so she turned it on full blast toward her own family. I have a couple of relatives like that so I know how destructive they can be. I wish they had had a happier life. Her daughters are nice, and from what I hear about him, their Dad was nice too. So marrying ones soul mate is not the answer to any body's troubles. A marriage is still a marriage. It takes love and patience and commitment and team spirit and basic common sense...all those good things, to make it work.
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